Transfem

I love this color, too :)

I cover my face before stepping outside,...

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.sdf.org/post/16848687...

CW - short mention of unsupportive parent, very supportive sibling, weddings, boymoding, and emotional dissonance....

Hi! This is an older pic of me. I think it was from around 2013 with a bad cell camera and a silly makeup app. Weirdly, it is still the best one I've got of myself even after having fully transitioned shortly after the pic was taken. Anyway, my biggest dysphoria is with my voice. I've spent over a decade on make it "pass". I'd...

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/12099240...

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/20219544...

I sent her a coming out letter while I was in school. Later I saw that she sent me a message but I was too scared to look at it at first....

If you are having issues finding housing as a trans person or would like to help others, consider joining this new matrix chat room....

I've just opened a new room for this as many people seem to be struggling. Together we can do more. Please crosspost and share!

    Question...

Hi, I'm the total mess known as Emma, and I'm currently a little overwhelmed with things....

So my wife and I have been trying to work through the practicality of me coming out. She's been having trouble perceiving me as female, which, like, I still have a beard, so I get it. She's bi, but also believes that homosexuality is a sin, so she's been trying to work though what we would look like. I've been trying to break...

I don't know why I keep this mask....

Did you have a tipping point between realizing you were trans and you started HRT?...

started HRT in January of 2022, is it safe to say all major changes are done, and I'll always kinda look ugly and there is nothing HRT can do....

https://imgur.com/a/6JkRV6X...

I decided to come out to my mom by sending her a "letter" to make it easier for me but I'm not sure is it good enough. Main things I want her to understand are how I feel, that this didn't happen overnight and that it's a big problem for me. This is what I wrote (translated to English):...

Like a girl...

Today I was scrolling social media and saw a trans gal who used to weigh 280 but now weighs 175 it reminds me that I’m 200 and raising (I don’t have a scale currently) my HRT hasn’t been working properly so I know that fat is going to masculine areas. Every time I inject I’m reminded what I’m doing is useless and my...

It’s a designer knockoff I bought online. Crossbody, 28x18cm (10x7 in), and I guess chains are a thing now because most bags have them in some form of a handle nowadays rather than old school leather or fabric straps?...

Mirror, mirror on the wall,...

[Requesting engagement from trans-feminine people on HRT]...

I’m so ugly and It keeps getting worse since I binge eat, I just fucking hate myself. I keep eating and I know it’s actively making me look more masculine. And feel worse.