permit54

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permit54 OP ,

because I don’t want to waste money

permit54 OP ,

It’s a little wild that this is what you came up with trying to be neutral and diplomatic.

that’s why this post is titled ‘can you help me…?’

Genuinely makes me question if you’re understanding this person and your role correctly.

I only know she’s not my boss and my role is the same as her.

I don’t understand why you believe you know my role better than me.

I wouldn’t do this over email. To be effective, the message has to be said next time she feels entitled to ‘correct’ me.

but, just my 2 cents

permit54 OP ,

spot on answer, I’ll use every one of those progressively.

permit54 OP ,

keep assuming

can you help me formulate an answer to a colleague who is not my boss but feels entitled to tell me how I have to work?

the colleague in question feels that only her way of doing things is the right one and expects me to adapt to her way of thinking and her logic. This is tiring and burdensome because I have to force me to stop doing things automatically and efficiently, but think how she wants it done and do it her way. I work worse when this...

permit54 OP ,

has this worked for you? ignoring and avoiding a coworker. I mean I could see myself doing it if I don’t care about the job or have something else lined up, but if I want or need the job, I’m having serious doubts if it would work every day.

Are you still employed where yo do/did this?

permit54 OP ,

could you elaborate? I can understand why somebody would try to ignore or greyrock the person, simply to protect himself, (kind of a flight reaction).

permit54 OP ,

found the manager or somebody who never worked as a nurse :D

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