So far I've checked several "getting started"'s and FAQ's and Google and everyone just tells me that it's possible but nobody tells me fucking WHERE. So obviously I'm in need of help. Preferably with a diagram or colourful pictures....
An Australian pilot was forced to take evasive action after a Chinese military jet detonated flares close to a Navy helicopter that was operating in international waters near South Korea....
I got banned from “World News @ lemmy.ml” because of “Nationalism”, because I argued that especially Europe does not just send weapons to Ukraine, but does also support Ukraine with the injured, with money and with a perspective after the war… My comment got deleted, too…...
What sort of post or comment gets you downvoted the most? Especially if you don’t think it’s bad behavior in the first place, or don’t care. Does not have to be on Lemmy, but we are here… One of the good things about Lemmy IMO is that it’s small enough to see the posts that are unpopular. If you do “Top Day” on...
In Quebec, the Civil Code requires parents to assign their child only one surname (either a single or compound surname) derived from their respective surnames. Compound surnames may not have more than two parts, with or without hyphens. Thus, a couple named Joseph BOUCHARD-TREMBLAY and Marie DION-ROY could give their children the surnames:
BOUCHARD
TREMBLAY
DION
ROY
BOUCHARD-TREMBLAY
DION-ROY
BOUCHARD-DION
BOUCHARD-ROY, and so on.
In Quebec, the law provides that spouses retain their respective birth names when they are married.
Lemmy.ml has fully went communist even their application needs you to copy paste a part from a communits book and that’s ok by me every politkcal group has their own instance and has the right to do as they wish . But they should really change their about from foss and privacy advocated to communist leaning ....
No hate to anyone, but imo, social media has lost the original meaning for which it was founded. It was created for communicating with people, but many have become completely absorbed in it and forgotten how to live and talk in reality. There is so much to learn from these platforms beyond mere amusement, but they have become...
I know that it has significant meaning to me but I struggle putting it into words to explain it to other people (especially other dya cis people). So like a few years ago I was thinking about if I may be trans femme. I have since realised that no, actually I was just struggling with it for a while because I don’t relate to the...
If a topic is in any way controversial, there’s a good chance it will get removed, when I’m sure the same content wouldn’t get removed on Reddit. I know it depends on subs and instances but I mean more generally, and for example AskLemmy vs AskReddit. Reddit seems to have more leeway for things, whereas Lemmy doesn’t and...
My first point is that Lemmy/Kbin is a community run community. The moderators are volunteers, and so are the admins. Please keep that in mind. We have families, jobs, and other commitments. Moderating is something we do to contribute to that community, not something we are paid to do or have to do. It’s not a power trip, it’s a gift of unpaid labor.
My second point is that many posts/comments are clearly follow the rules, or clearly break the rules. But some sit in a grey zone where it’s not entirely clear. Whether such a post/comment breaks the rules might be a matter of perspective, might require the mod to try to guess the intent of the author, or might require consideration of detail that is not explicitly stated in the rules. For a particular post/comment, the author might think it was reasonable, but what they may not know is that we received reports from other users. Ultimately, someone has to make that call, and that’s what mods do.
[email protected] is the largest community I help mod, so I can really only talk about it, but from what I’ve seen mods try to moderate fairly, reasonably and in the best interests of the community. That’s why sometimes you might see a post from a mod asking for community input into how to apply the rules.
Some of your recent posts, including this one, are examples of ones that tend to sit in the grey zone. The nature of the questions, and the way that you frame them could be interpreted as spam, or as enabling pedophilia, as astroturfing, or as in the case of this post outside of the intent of the community (I’ll let it slide because it’s important discussion about community governance). On the other hand, they could also be interpreted as entirely reasonable questions that fit the community. Only you know your intent, so the mods have to make a call based on what they can see on their screens. That tends to be done on the basis of balance of probabilities, NOT beyond reasonable doubt.
For this community, I disagree that topics are removed if they are controversial. They are removed if a mod thinks they break the rules, or the TOS, or are outside the purpose of the community. The moderation in other communities may differ however.
We’ve implemented some basic controls to hopefully catch CSAM material earlier. As with any such control, occasionally there might be false positives. Unfortunately that’s the price we pay…
We are part-way there. Some basic controls have been implemented. I don’t want to get too specific as then they can set out to circumvent them. It shouldn’t affect most genuine community members overly much.
Last night I was exposed to CP and I am a victim of childhood sexual abuse so it really hit hard and made me instantly nauseous. I got a reply from the mods that my post was removed and the CSAM content was already gone by the time I made the report. It also said in the reply I got that If I made complaint I may be banned! WTH...
Hi OP. I’m sorry that you were exposed to CP. Thankfully I didn’t see it before it was purged, but I’m sure it was distressing, especially for someone who was a victim.
I feel that you post is important, but this is not really the appropriate community to raise it. Can you please re-post in [email protected]?
During the Reddit Strike, there was a stream on Twitch showing subreddits going dark. They played an amazing Japanese jazz album, but I’ve lost the bookmark to the YouTube vid....
Had a couple of reports about this comment, but I can see how it might be intended to not breach rule 1 and the authors comment history seems untoxic. I’ll let it stand but it’s line ball.
I have an eight-year-old laptop that needs replacing and I’m paralyzed. What are the most reliable ones now? Do I need a desktop for CAD? Pros and cons of operating systems (and where do I find them?) Browsers ditto? Where do I find answers that aren’t just product marketing?
My mom has a hole in the ground that she puts her clothes drying hanger in. Like this. The hole in the ground is a 2" or so pipe, set in concrete. The pipe has filled with gravel. Anyone have a tip on getting the rocks out? I can only get so many out using my fingers and then trying to use a set of chopsticks.
Okay, I give up. How do I user-block instances?
So far I've checked several "getting started"'s and FAQ's and Google and everyone just tells me that it's possible but nobody tells me fucking WHERE. So obviously I'm in need of help. Preferably with a diagram or colourful pictures....
Australian helicopter forced to take evasive action after Chinese fighter detonates flares ( www.abc.net.au )
An Australian pilot was forced to take evasive action after a Chinese military jet detonated flares close to a Navy helicopter that was operating in international waters near South Korea....
How would you hide a paperclip in your home/apartment to win a contest against an investigator?
This time, with rules....
Is arguing "The west does not just send weapons. Europe also helps Ukraine in other ways" nationalism? ( lemmy.dbzer0.com )
I got banned from “World News @ lemmy.ml” because of “Nationalism”, because I argued that especially Europe does not just send weapons to Ukraine, but does also support Ukraine with the injured, with money and with a perspective after the war… My comment got deleted, too…...
Why do they say "there's no true Left in the US"?
What gets you downvoted?
What sort of post or comment gets you downvoted the most? Especially if you don’t think it’s bad behavior in the first place, or don’t care. Does not have to be on Lemmy, but we are here… One of the good things about Lemmy IMO is that it’s small enough to see the posts that are unpopular. If you do “Top Day” on...
Pope criticised for saying Ukraine should ‘raise white flag’ and end war with Russia ( www.theguardian.com )
What happens when two people with hyphenated last names get married? Do they hyphenate all four names and in what order?
Why is lemmy.ml still advertising as an instance for foss and privacy enthusiasts when its not ?
Lemmy.ml has fully went communist even their application needs you to copy paste a part from a communits book and that’s ok by me every politkcal group has their own instance and has the right to do as they wish . But they should really change their about from foss and privacy advocated to communist leaning ....
Why social media became an unlikable place ?
No hate to anyone, but imo, social media has lost the original meaning for which it was founded. It was created for communicating with people, but many have become completely absorbed in it and forgotten how to live and talk in reality. There is so much to learn from these platforms beyond mere amusement, but they have become...
What's the worst way you ever broke production?
Fess up. You know it was you.
Post removal on [email protected]
I thought I’d give a quick update on the efforts to combat the spam wave....
How can a normal lemmy user contribute in reducing the amount of spam posted without being a mod?
NBN sheds jobs as 'death spiral' worsens ( www.macrobusiness.com.au )
Why are people putting "tho" at the end of sentences now?
It was never needed in the past and ads no context that a simple exclamation point or bold letters could do if a person wants to add emphasis.
What is the most poignant thing someone has said to you when they were close to the end of their life?
How would you put into words what gender means to you apart from societal gender roles and expectations?
I know that it has significant meaning to me but I struggle putting it into words to explain it to other people (especially other dya cis people). So like a few years ago I was thinking about if I may be trans femme. I have since realised that no, actually I was just struggling with it for a while because I don’t relate to the...
Best all purpose, unrestricted AI?
I play with Bard, Bing, OpenAI, and I get annoyed when it tells me it can’t do something....
Why do posts frequently get removed on Lemmy when Reddit would not remove them?
If a topic is in any way controversial, there’s a good chance it will get removed, when I’m sure the same content wouldn’t get removed on Reddit. I know it depends on subs and instances but I mean more generally, and for example AskLemmy vs AskReddit. Reddit seems to have more leeway for things, whereas Lemmy doesn’t and...
Why do some people's eyes create that 'falling in' effect, as if they expand to fill your awareness, and other's do not?
People of the Fediverse, what inspires you?
I’m talking about the things that make you really excited.
AskLemmy @ Lemmy.world is accepting posts again!
We’ve implemented some basic controls to hopefully catch CSAM material earlier. As with any such control, occasionally there might be false positives. Unfortunately that’s the price we pay…
AskLemmy temporarily closed
We have temporarily locked posting on AskLemmy until the CSAM posting stops.
CSAM Emergency Contact
Last night I was exposed to CP and I am a victim of childhood sexual abuse so it really hit hard and made me instantly nauseous. I got a reply from the mods that my post was removed and the CSAM content was already gone by the time I made the report. It also said in the reply I got that If I made complaint I may be banned! WTH...
HYPOTHETICAL QUESTION: Do You Think Refusing To Transition A Child, Should Be Considered Child Abuse?
As a consequence, have a person’s kids taken away? Or should there be any consequences?...
Looking for a particular jazz album
During the Reddit Strike, there was a stream on Twitch showing subreddits going dark. They played an amazing Japanese jazz album, but I’ve lost the bookmark to the YouTube vid....
Any users worship Christianity regularly like me?
Whats the difference between the language codes ro and ro_v26 (romanian)? ( lemmy.zip )
Just an idea to make the Fediverse better, what do you think about it?
I have this proposal for ActivityPub...
Where can a Boomer catch up on current computer/software technology?
I have an eight-year-old laptop that needs replacing and I’m paralyzed. What are the most reliable ones now? Do I need a desktop for CAD? Pros and cons of operating systems (and where do I find them?) Browsers ditto? Where do I find answers that aren’t just product marketing?
Keyword based Filter on Lemmy ?
Is there a way set a filter to block posts with that keyword in the title or description ??...
How do you strike a balance between being present in the moment and planning for the future?
How to pull rocks out of pipe in the ground?
My mom has a hole in the ground that she puts her clothes drying hanger in. Like this. The hole in the ground is a 2" or so pipe, set in concrete. The pipe has filled with gravel. Anyone have a tip on getting the rocks out? I can only get so many out using my fingers and then trying to use a set of chopsticks.
[Reddit] avoiding Reddit links in Lemmy.
Hi all...
Can kindness be learned or cultivated, and to what extent is it an innate quality?
DIY 24v LiFePO4 Solar Battery Bank! Beginner Friendly, 2.4 kWh, Cheap, Full Tutorial! ( www.youtube.com )
Your brain is sitting in a sealed, completely dark room with wires coming out of the walls.